Posts tagged Estranged Parents
Be Like Jack Pearson. Make "Okay" Your Mantra

Taking a cue from "This Is Us" I want to give you a little encouragement. All we want as parents is for our families and kids to be okay. We can have our hopes and dreams for them, but when it comes down to it, we just want them to be okay. 

So I want to challenge you to put aside your hurt for a moment and ask yourself if they turned out okay. If so, then you can take comfort in knowing you had something to do with that. Take comfort in the fact that they're okay.

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Building Walls, Setting Boundaries, And Dealing With Social Media Stalkers

Communication is the first casualty in any broken relationship. In today's social media driven world, it's even more difficult a challenge. 

In order to heal, you may need to build walls to prevent angry communications and quiet the noise so you can focus on you and what your life is going to be going forward. 

Once the noise settles, you can then open up doors to let those kinds of people who you want to be in community with into your life.

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Estranged Relationships? Trust Me, It Gets Better.

Living as a parent with estranged adult children is difficult. It can be painful to the point of being debilitating and there are days where it seems like the sun won't ever shine again. Let me be the first to tell you that it gets better. 

The gaps between the sad times will get longer. Life will become enjoyable again. You will survive by putting yourself together again in a brand new way.

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How To Deal With Angry And Abusive Messages

It's inevitable that at some point you'll receive angry or even abusive messages from your EC. It can be through Social Media like Facebook, angry voicemails, or even through text messaging. 

In this video I teach you the three ways to handle your response to these messages, two of which are total non-starters. 

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How To Deal With Narcissists And Their Enablers

In today's social media saturated world, more and more kids are growing up to be narcissists. They see the faux reality of others in their social media feeds and when they don't see their lives are matching up, they blame their parents for depriving them. When they see others doing things their parents don't allow, they call their parents controlling and abusive. 

Unfortunately with social media it's easy for them to find others to enable this narcissistic behavior, further making it difficult to be a parent today.

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